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Some insecure men will also idealize men in successful positions or men who seem to “have it all” on the surface: the pretty younger girlfriend, the family man whose home life always seems happy and free of problems or tensions, or the bachelor who has freedom and social excitement in his life.

Carrying a “chip” on their shoulder or caring about trivial things Insecure men are pretty transparent, even though many want to believe that no one can see through them.

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That being said, while men will all disagree over the minutiae of female beauty, few will disagree with the important aspects.

This post should give you a solid idea of what matters to most guys, and how much.

On top of providing no worthwhile advice, it would serve as a painful reminder of her inadequacies.

However, the notion that a woman's attractiveness is anything less than highly controllable is patently false.

Insecure men come in every size and age, and they all share the need for affirmation. You’ll understand in a moment when I share the behaviors insecure men engage in more than their secure and confident male peers.

First, however, it is important to note that most insecure men don’t even consciously know they’re insecure.I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.Time and time again, I see the same thing: the women who aren't getting attention from men fall almost entirely into two categories: Hopefully you noticed something important about this list: it does not include women who have "ugly" faces, or even deformities.Obviously, natural good looks cannot be overlooked, but they are given far more credit than they deserve.It is the height of hyperbole - you might even say a myth - that women are either born attractive or not.

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