Materialism dating

If a Kong man does not have a promising career or the ability to take care of a woman, Hong Kong women will not date him,” she said.

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“They are women who have a great education, a successful career, and a pretty face and just don’t want to settle for less,” Lai said.

Men who have a “good package” (this means, by the way, that they are physically attractive, with a sizable bank account and a promising career), she added, have complained to her that they are having greater difficulties in finding their Ms. “They mind women who are too career-driven,” said Lai.

“Once I dated a man who boasted how many properties he owned. Kong men may also have little to offer in the bedroom.

According to a 2014 survey released by the Family Planning Association of Hong Kong, nearly 60% of the 2,100 women aged between 21 and 40 reported at least one sexual problem that lasted over three months to one year—which could be attributed to a partners’ lack of expertise. A similar percentage said they had problems getting aroused. and gold-diggers, Kong men should reflect on their shortcomings first,” Lung pointed out.

Perhaps spouses go to bed angry after failing to agree on the amount of money they ought to be saving – even whether they ought to save at all.

Perhaps one spouse believes strongly that the couple should formulate a household budget, but the other considers a budget an unneeded hindrance.

The message to women is clear: Lower your expectations, even though you might deserve better.

A column entitled “Hey sisters, get real or you will die alone” published on April 11 in EJ Insight is the latest, most offensive iteration of this message.

(Yes, this is the one that offended my friend so much.

While it appears to have been removed by the publisher, perhaps because of the number of complaints, a cached version is here.) The truth is, neither men nor women want to settle for less than what they want—and Hong Kong men and Hong Kong women seem to want different things.

It said “materialism likely has harmful effects” for a couple “regardless of whether the value is shared” by both husband and wife.

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